BRIDE & GROOM CHECKLIST
SIX TO TWELVE MONTHS BEFORE
- _____Select a wedding date and time.
- _____Make a preliminary budget
- _____Determine your wedding theme or style
- _____Reserve your ceremony and reception location
- _____Book your ceremony, reception
- _____Decide on your color scheme
- _____Determine the guest list
- _____Start compiling names and addresses of guests
- _____Select bridal attendants
- _____Have fiancé select his attendants
- _____Plan reception the style of reception you want to have
- _____Select your dress
- _____Select bridesmaids’ dresses
- _____Select engagement ring with fiancé, if he has not already done so
- _____Announce your engagement in the newspaper.
FOUR MONTHS BEFORE
- _____Make final arrangements for ceremony location and officiates
- _____Make sure all bridal attire is on order with your vendor
- _____Have both mothers coordinate and select their dresses
- _____Register at a bridal registry in the towns of both families
- _____Complete the guest lists and compile them in order
- _____Select the men’s wedding attire and reserve the right sizes
- _____Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state
- _____ Write wedding vows together if doing non-traditional ceremony
- _____Shop for wedding rings
- _____Start planning the honeymoon
TWO MONTHS BEFORE
- _____Finalize menu, linen, glassware details and estimated guest count at Sixty-Days
- _____ Name of your CONTACT PERSON. Usually a friend, they will handle: guest book, favors, gifts, cake parts
- _____Give CONTACT PERSON a copy of your Worksheet once you have it filled out
- _____Order invitations and personal stationary
- _____Address invitations and announcements. They should be mailed four to six weeks before
- _____Finalize all details , photographer, florist, menu, linens, etc
- _____Let your florist, cake person and band or DJ know that details for delivery
- _____Order wedding cake. Make sure you also order cake boxes for guests to take home cake
- _____ Finalize ceremony details with officiate
- _____Make rehearsal arrangements & plan rehearsal dinner
- _____Plan bridesmaids' luncheon
- _____Make appointments with hairdresser
- _____Finalize honeymoon plans
ONE MONTH BEFORE
- _____Have a final fitting for your gown and bridal attendants’ gowns
- _____Have a formal bridal portrait taken
- _____Purchase gifts for attendants
- _____Have the bridesmaids’ luncheon
- _____Make sure you have all accessories, toasting goblets, ring pillow, garter, candles, etc